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baacckkk!!! Dis time kiter nak kepo2 sikit lah.. You
all ader tak kalau kat Orchard tu, nampak kids in
uniform or in their outside clothes go dating... Did
you ever have the thinkin like 'Makcow budak2 lagik
dah nak dating, ciom mulut in public some more!!"
Dunno whether they know what the hell they are doin?'
So hmmm.. bistu at wat age will it be appropriate
for young people to go dating? Difficult to answer
isnt it?
Ironic kan... biler kiter dolu2 muda, tak kisahkan
aper org cakap. If people give the stare, we stare
back or ignore... kan kan kan??? But as time goes
by, we have grown & learn from our experiences,
kiter nyer turn lak nak komen pasal budak2 sekarang...
Tapi to think of it, tak fair kan, kiter tak kasi
these youngsters the opportunity to learn bout life
in their own way macam kiter dulu-dulu... Kita pon
dulu apa kurangnya? betul tak? But then kalau agree
too much ngan dorang, nanti dorang nie too much pulak...
*sigh*
Maklumlah sekarang zaman millenium, kids nowadays
grew up in a different environment & teachings,
kalau kiter tegur sikit dorang cakap kiter kolot,
old-fashion.. heheheh... But talkin bout young kids
havin relationships nie, kiter sometimes wonder issit
because of love, affactuation or for fun?
Ataupun ikut orang, latest trend, peer pressure, orang
ader partner kiter pun ader lah.. Also nak show off
saper leh dapat partner yang handsome/beautiful/stylo...
Weird isnt it?
Macam dat time kiter tengok news, they ask school
kids lah, at wat age is suitable to have bgr.. most
of them say dat biler dah habis schoolin or around
the age of 20 somethin.. Funny eh.. dorang nyer answer
tak samer macam kiter tengok real life on the streets...
hhmmmm... It's either they have really good idealogies
of how or when relationships should be formed, or
they are just lying through their teeth! hehehe..
Actually kan, in our personal opinion, there's no
right age or wrong age for someone to go ga-ga over
their better halfs (asalkan jangan below 16 sudah
ler.. coz at that age, you'd better concentrate on
your 'O' levels!!). Tapi as long as both parties know
where they stand, treats each other with respect,
knows the difference between right and wrong dalam
segi agama dan social, there's nothing wrong with
having relationships.
So kiter kat AnakMelayu nie nak tau sikit lah bout
your thoughts tentang dis issue.. Not kutukkan ok,
but your personal views on how youngsters these days
think about relationships, love, marriage and eventually
parenting.
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