Hey u guyz! Dis time kiter ader interesting topic to note about. Actually, more untuk the gals out there. You all pernah tak kener stalk ngan your ex atau your current boyfriend punyer ex-girlfriend tak? Kalau tak pernah, woooo.. rabak oooo... Maybe skarang tak ader banyak case gitu but tak salah kan kiter tau sedikit sebanyak pasal dis type of stalker.. Juz to beware...

So what makes these men and women jadi stalker sot giler macam tu eh?

Well, women yang prone to have this behaviour usually has a need for emotional well-being yang terlalu up. Maknanya diaorang nyer ego ader sikit nyer fragile & they sometimes rasa yang dorang nie worthless kalau takde man in their life (nie bukan kita yang cakpa eh, nie according to our research). They also cannot take failure kalau relationship dorang tak kepanjangan. They cannot handle rejection, macam kalau kener reject kan, they see it macam the guy reject dorang nyer entire value as a person. (kecoh siak) Habis tu, how to tell kalau you all kene stalked? One thing for sure that you kene stalk is kalau you always bump into that same person anywhere and everywhere and everytime.

Kalau korang nyer privacy has been invaded - macam ader org visit ur werk place or home. Well, sometimes macam susah gitu nak prove whether you all nie kene stalked unless you see the suspicious person out in public places. Tapikan mesti ader pattern lah.. takleh lah suka2 nampak org yg pernah nampak kat shopping mall habis tu cakap dorang stalker... maner leh kan? Ader kang orang tu nanti you satu stalker nyer lebam pat mata.. heheheh... You must be sure that it is the same person all along. Kalau ader kreter ikot you dari belakang maner maner you pegi, walaupon ke toilet, take down nombor plate kreter or motor dorang or write down wat they are wearing (untuk prove later ler..). Oklah, kalau you ingat dat you are imagining things... juz note down & keep record of the stalker sightings.

So what can you do?

Jangan nak jadi hero atau heroin pergi confront sendirik (tapi kalau nak panggil 'wild boys' dari anak metro pung orait ah kan, tapi saya dengar awak kene bayar duit "pengeras" mahal ooooo, lagipon, lepas tu kene bayar instalment duit "protection money".. panggil polis kan lagi best.. FREE!)... hehhh.. Pergi kat lawyer atau pung police. Pasal kalau betul dorang nie stalker & tries to threatens or harms you, (normally threaten nak suicide ah kalau you tak leave the guy & blames you for it ataupon buat kecoh ngan your family pasal your past relationship) the police can arrest the stalker & charge her ngan criminal intimidation tau! Dun pleh pleh ah! Tapi kalau dier cumer follow u around jer, tak buat aper2 den tak leh gie kat polis lah.. (buang maser dorang jer) You can go to your lawyer den they will file a paper with the court asking the stalker to stop harassing you. If the stalker lady or guy breaks the court order, she may be fined or jailed.

Walandey... serious jugak eh kalau kener stalk.. Tapikan krew AM suggest to all the gals out there to check out the guy 1st b4 hv anything serious.. kan lebih safe.. So all the best!