Hi all,

This is how my story goes...

I knoe my tunang since i was 17 goin to 18 and baru nak masuk S;pore Poly. But now dah pon graduate with Dip in Mechatronics...

Everything that i went tru wit him is not so much of a pain.. All was beatiful and nice and sweet.. He is so loving so caring so gentle.. One day in Nov 2004 after 4-5mths of graduation, he proposed to me.. Gadis maner yg tak suka bila org yg dia sayang nak mengambilnya menjadi isteri...

Dia masuk meminang pada 28 Dec 2004 and we decided the date which is 6 Mac 2005 (Sunday). Dgn duit gaji kerja baru i lah i kumpul nak beli baju dan benda benda lain... All comes to abt $2000/- Duit tak kisah.. on 28 Feb 2004, lagi 7 hari nak tunang, semua dah sedia, dia berubah hati.. He dun wan to proceed with the engagement...

This is when it all stated... On my engagement day, i;m not like any other girls who are happy... I'm sad.. full of cries, full of sorrow deep in my heart.. Imagine that after 4yrs... He suddenly say nak putus lagi 7 hari nak tunang...

We did not stop the majlis coz dah pon jemput org.. We go on with it but he said its just a "Drama". I act as normal... Act as tough nothing happen... Dia terus berubah hati and stick with his decision to broke up... On the 27 Mar 2005, his parents came... Mintak cincin balik... Guess how many times i wear the cincin, 4 times... Exactly 3weeks of tunang tak kuar pon dgn dia, tak bual pon dlm phone...He didn;t even say why but he said he dah berubah hati... Itu sajer the reason for him to break this engagement... He totally change to be so bad towards someone who cares so much for him,..

But... Alhamdulilliah dgn pertolongan kluarga dan teman, i moved on with life.. Today(4 April 05) is 8days after kita officially putus tunang.. Within this 8 days i cried so much jadi macm org giler... but he, as i were told by my frend main pool dgn kawan kawan dia... Ketawer happy happy... I dun even know that ppl can change even if we knoe him well..

You may find this story tak masuk akal.. But it did happen to me... i only get engaged for exactly 3 weeks... i just wants to share this so that if u ever have doubts with ur guys or gerl.. better sort it out b4 its tooo late...